Lets Give Haters A Reason to Hate...

Last night, my friends and I decided to go downtown to have some fun on Thirsty Thursday. I volunteered as designated driver so of course I wasn't going out to get plastered. Sober, I had an awesome night- met new friends, danced my ass off and had a great time. However, since it IS downtown Springfield there of course had to be some type of drama. A girl, who I know through mutual friends (well, at one time they were friends), was downtown last night. Lindsey and I was standing near the table she was sitting at. I was not even paying attention and was too busy dancing so  I'm not 100% sure what happened but the next thing I know Travis (a mutual friend) is standing inbetween Lindsey and this girl, talking to Lindsey. They weren't going to fight but clearly something was going on. We walked away but apparently she had a few words to say about me on Facebook (Not even to my face). So before I show you what was said, let me tell you a little about myself, for those of you who dont know me well....

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My name is Amy Adelman. I am twenty-one years old as of June 22. I have two babies, Harper Grace and Caden Mathew, who are my world. Caden Mathew was born October 8, 2008. I was 17 years old. Harper Grace was born February 16, 2012. I was 20 years old. I work for Wells Fargo in a position that I am very fortunate to have. I make over 31K yearly, not including working overtime. When I was 18, I had a full ride scholarship to Robert Morris College that I gave up for my son so I could work full time. This year will be my first time attending college, part time at Lincoln Land Community College. Now, I will be raising two kids, attending college and working 48+ hours a week.

I was in a very serious relationship for six years with Bryan Friedrich. He was my first and only, if you get my drift. He is the father of both of my children. We started dating when I was 15 years old. We had a LOT of issues in our relationship but still worked through them the best we could. We were due to get married in May 2011. Because we had more growing up to do, the wedding was canceled in April. Shortly after, we found out I was 11 weeks pregnant. For a brief time, we tried to work on things but clearly still had our differences. We both agreed we needed time apart. We decided we needed to do what was best for our kids and went our seperate ways. Since then, I have been on my own raising our two children.

Being a single mom, let alone a young mom,  is NOT an easy task. My days consist of: waking up at the crack of dawn, feeding Harper, getting the kids ready for school, taking them to daycare, going to work 8:00-5:00, picking them up from daycare, making dinner for Caden and I, feeding Harper, playing with Caden or watching Team Umizoomie, reading a book to Caden before bed, feeding harper, showering, going to bed and throughout the night feeding Harper. This is my schedule every day Monday through Friday. Saturdays I work overtime and spend time with the kids doing whatever, while cleaning. Every other weekend, the kids go to their dads house and stay there. On those weekends, I spend time with my friends doing whatever they want to do. Typically, we go downtown to dance or hangout at my house.

I am very outspoken, honest and friendly. I get along with nearly everyone. If you are nice to me, I am nice in return. I do not filter what I say, I never have and never will. I dislike when people are dishonest with me so I do my best to be as honest as I can be. I have trust issues due to a brutal past. I have many male friends, none of whom I've had any desire to be with. I have very few close friends and I consider them my "clique":  Lindsey, Bri, Kiki, Brit, Amber and Alex.

If you think this looks like jibberish, you're absolutely right. When I read this, I literally felt my IQ drop 10 points, good gracious. Lets break this down:

1. "Idc if you dislike me and want me to pay"- I am assuming she is talking about this issue she had with her previous mutual friends. She receieved a ticket to a camping trip with my friends, they got in an argument before it, she demanded her money back for the ticket, they told her she can have her ticket, long story short.... SHIT'S OVER and has been over for a LONNNNG time, move the fuck on.

2. "but the minute you and...." She's referring to Lindsey...

3. "... your day ugly white trash had 2 babies before 21" LMAO. I'm not sure what she was going for with "day ugly" maybe gay? Which if that is the word, clearly I am not gay if I have two babies; and "White trash"... ahhh. White Trash: pejorative term referring to a poor white person in the United States. Sweetheart, I make more money now than you have in your whole 4 years of working combined. Needless to say I'm clearly not a "poor white person", can we sound a little more intelligent please?

4. "had 2 babies before 21" Why yes I did. Which apparently made me grow up and made me much more maturer than you have ever been in your whole pathetic life. They are the main reason why I am the way I am now. Unlike most girls my age, I think about someone else before myself. I am not jumping from man to man. I am not "sleeping around". I can hold a relationship and avoid idiots such as yourself as much as possible.

5. "Friends try to touch my friends" Either you're crazy or you're crazy. No one was "touching your friends". No one even touched you, get a frickin life.

6. "It's game on" What are you going to do? Seriously. You're so tough behind your phone typing a Facebook status but you can't say anything straight to my face? HA. Grow a few inches, be a big girl and lets play this "game". We're adults now and as much as you claim you "hate" drama YOU STARTED IT but trust me when I say this I WILL finish it.


So there you have it. Clearly, this idiot has NO clue what the hell she is talking about. I've wasted my time long enough on this subject. Believe me when I say this, next time she has something to say, she will either say it to my face or find out what truly happens when you run your mouth about me. I have better things to worry about than a jealous female who isnt making much of her life. NEXT.